HAHA.. Before I enter into my dreamland, I saw something interesting. =)

Getting Back Together

A breakup offers people time to reflect on the dynamics of a relationship - what went wrong and why, as well as what went right.

Let there be love
Ask yourself: Is there still love between you and your ex?
If you are certain that you still love your ex and that he or she still loves you, then you have part of what it takes to reestablish a successful relationship.
If you aren't sure whether or not you still love one another, then you probably need to take more time until you are certain about what you feel and want.

One or both parties already gave up on the relationship once, so what makes you think you can make it work this time around? This is the kind of question doubt will make you ask.

Face issues
One of the most important factors in getting back together with your ex is a willingness to face the issues honestly - together and individually. You know, the ones that led you to breakup in the first place.

You know, the ones that led you to breakup in the first place.
Since it's almost impossible to change the other person, a good place to start is with you.
Ask yourself how you can take responsibility for your part in the breakup.

Commit
Taking the responsibility for your part in the problems is part of the healing.

Reestablishing a strong foundation for the relationship comes with making a commitment to work on these problems one at a time.
This will take time, and results will be slow to come, so remain consistent and persistent. Both need to commit to making changes.

When negotiating what needs to change in a relationship, do your best to avoid criticism and blame.

LOL. Isn't it quite meaningful? LOL. XD